Book 5: Feeling Others
1. Establishing fifth-dimensional communities
To live in harmony, whether in a family with traditional values or in an open-minded paradise-seeking community, all individuals have three basic needs that must be met:
To be seen.
To be heard.
To be allowed to express their authenticity.
2. To be seen
To be seen means being listened to, while to be heard means being understood, which provides the safety everyone needs to dare to express who they truly are.
3. Joy
The way to live joyfully is to be seen and heard, meaning being listened to and understood, which allows a person to reveal their innermost beauty.
When this happens, paradise magically appears, suggesting that the starting point for paradise isn’t creating a new financial system or opening your Third Eye chakra to its fullest, but beginning to see and hear the people closest to you, often your spouse and children.
4. Order
All situations involving more than one being require rules to ensure a joyful life experience.
When it comes to paradisial living, there are three golden rules:
Never criticize another being.
Always communicate how you feel before explaining what you think.
Never believe that the solution to a problem is to change someone else rather than yourself, even if you might be the more enlightened side in a conflict.
5. The blessings of turbulence
Turbulence naturally occurs when people cannot meet their basic needs of being seen, heard, and expressing their authenticity.
When this happens, it naturally triggers a chain of healing, whether the person suppresses their needs, blames themselves, or blames others. Let me clarify.
If a person suppresses their true needs, they will eventually reach a point where this is no longer possible, often through increasingly serious physical illnesses. Although this process is short when seen from a cosmic perspective, it can take many lifetimes before a person realizes they must change.
The same is true for the common habit of blaming yourself. If this is how you handle unmet needs, you will soon find yourself in a situation where it becomes clear that you need to change how you relate to yourself. If you don't do this, you might reach the point where you take your own life.
Lastly, if you handle the frustration of unmet needs by blaming others, they will sooner or later see that they need to detach from you. This will help you redirect the focus back to yourself, hopefully in a non-judgmental way.
6. Sacred sexuality
In all communities, happiness depends on a healthy balance between masculine and feminine energy.
Ideally, there is an equal number of both genders, and ideally, everyone is attracted to each other. However, it will take a few hundred years to achieve that.
Until then, it is important that people resonate with at least Christ consciousness, meaning all animalistic tendencies, such as viewing women as one’s personal property and men as loyal soldiers, have disappeared. This allows for deep intimacy among all people without invoking jealousy, although not necessarily through penetrative sex, which is the most effective way of exchanging energy.
As a general rule, women’s role in a community is to hold space for children, men, and other women, while being protected by men in return. Accordingly, men’s role is to stand firm in their truth, helping women relax and fully open their Third Eye chakras, almost merging with God.
7. Enlightenment
In a family, or any other type of community, enlightenment is represented by all members being able to follow the three ‘golden rules’ described in chapter 4, along with obtaining a healthy exchange of energy under the rules of sacred sexuality.
8. Abundance
Within a family or larger community, abundance is represented by infinite pleasurable moments together, celebrating life.
9. Completion
All families, regardless of their size, are destined to split someday, either through death in the sense of leaving creation or death in the sense that someone has been satisfied by the experience and wants to move on.
Therefore, always value what you have right now. Nothing in life lasts forever, especially not a specific dynamic between two or more aspects of God.
10. Summarizing what we have said so far
The way to foster harmony in communities is to ensure that everyone’s basic needs are fulfilled, including being seen, heard, and able to express their authentic personality.
People find this difficult until they start following three ‘golden rules': 1) never criticize anyone, 2) always express your feelings before your thoughts, and 3) never try to solve a problem by changing someone else instead of yourself, which often means that the solution to a harmful relationship is to cut ties with that person.
Lastly, sexuality is an essential ingredient in all communities, but must be adapted to everyone’s emotional maturity.
11. Paradisial families
In paradise, all families are clusters of joy, effectively helping each member to fulfill their highest potential.
12. Families as extensions of God
From a higher perspective, a family is a divine entity, put together to work as a team.
For this reason, it is important that everyone finds their way to support the larger self, that is, the family.
Even very young children can help create a positive atmosphere at home, at least by tidying up their own belongings and assisting with simple tasks.
Living in a family without contributing eventually means not being part of the family, which causes the fundamental need – to be seen – to go unmet.
In other words, family members who, for any reason, don’t contribute to the community will suffer, making everyone else suffer to some degree as well.
13. The highest joy
The greatest joy on Earth is to be part of a strong family, whether traditional or untraditional, where everyone is a blessing to each other. The way to achieve this is by starting to practice relating to one another according to the principles outlined in this Book.