Gospel 4: Connecting with truth
The highest truth in life is that we are, and the second highest truth, which is a logical consequence of the first, is that we want to be in a state of harmony rather than disharmony.
This is akin to saying that all beings within creation are seeking pleasure, though they do so in very different ways depending on their evolutionary maturity.
For humans, nothing is more essential than expressing their sexuality in a way that blends animalistic passion with cosmic truth, which we call sacred sexuality.
1. The Basic Needs of All Beings
Humans, in contrast to animals, make love to achieve more than just having babies, which explains why our sexual attraction to others isn’t tied to a specific time period, although many women still tend to be more sexually aroused when they are fertile than when they are not.
Understanding what humans seek in life, which animals are completely unaware of, and which enlightened beings can achieve in another way, is the key to understanding how our sexuality is developing.
The ABCs of human sexuality
We are drawn to those who can help us move forward in our evolution, suggesting that our life situation determines which beings we feel drawn to.
Sometimes, we feel vulnerable and seek the company of someone who is particularly nurturing, and other times it’s the opposite. We feel so good about ourselves that we feel even better by being the one who nurtures someone else.
In short, humans have three needs that they fulfill through sexual interaction with others, usually with people of the opposite gender, but sometimes through homosexual relationships. In no particular order, these are:
To be seen.
To be heard.
To be respected for who they are.
Let’s now share a few words about each need.
To be seen
Unless we have the capacity to see ourselves, meaning understanding what we need and desire to feel good, we feel drawn to people who are very good at seeing themselves, maybe too good compared to what is balanced and healthy.
Because of this, people with extremely low self-esteem feel drawn to people who are sometimes labeled as narcissists in our society, meaning people who are entirely absorbed in themselves, which doesn’t necessarily imply that they like themselves, because often they don’t.
In contrast, if we are good at seeing ourselves, we don’t need someone who is unusually focused on this skill, suggesting we can find someone who is more balanced in this regard.
To be heard
If we struggle to express ourselves authentically, we fail to be heard by others and even by ourselves, and we feel drawn to people who are masters at expressing their needs so that everyone can hear them.
In such relationships, we might appear as victims, but the truth is that we absorb the other person's energy and gradually learn to be more like them, even if it requires a separation and a period of grieving to truly embody a noticeable improvement.
To be respected
To be respected essentially means not being judged, and it can only be expressed by people who no longer judge themselves as good or bad and have accepted who they are.
As long as you judge yourself as either good or bad, you will be drawn to people who don’t judge.
However, those who don’t judge might get little out of the relationship, suggesting they are ready for the final lesson in this context – to fully respect their own needs by setting boundaries with those who cannot offer them much more than social activity.
Moving from Christ-being to God-conscious being
The path from Christ being to becoming a God-conscious human being entails learning to see, express, and respect yourself, thereby transforming who you are, including your sexual preferences.
In the end, when you are very well-balanced, expressing your sexuality becomes less serious because of weaker attachments to your lovers, and more centered on pleasure than on healing.
2. The Three Waves of Sexual Evolution
Step one in your sexual evolution from Christ being to God-conscious human being is to observe the dynamic between you and your lovers.
Are you the nurturing or the strong part, meaning the feminine or the masculine pole? Are you the needy one or the one who holds space? And are you the responsible one or the one who acts more like a child?
Normally, women are nurturing, needy, and responsible, while men tend to be strong, hold space, and be more childish. However, as a rule of thumb, you must overcome these unbalanced tendencies to achieve a truly remarkable sex life. Let me clarify.
If a woman is attracted to a man because of his ability to make her feel safe, she will nurture him only as long as she feels safe, implying that she is controlling him through conditioned love.
Consequently, if a man is attracted to a woman because she makes him feel nurtured, he will enter a negative spiral, becoming more childish and irresponsible.
Therefore, being a Christ being entails experiencing relationships in which women indirectly control men by closing down unless they feel safe, and men act like grown-up children.
We can say that the standard scenario for most Christ beings is that their love relationship gravitates toward the relationship between a mother and her son, suggesting that the attraction fades after some initial fireworks, usually lasting a few months or possibly years.
Nurturing the passion
The only way to sustain the passion between a man and a woman and avoid the detrimental degeneration into a mother-son relationship is to find a healthy balance between individual growth and growth as a couple, which can be achieved through these actions:
Don’t make your lover too big a part of your life, or the attraction between the two of you will decline over the years.
Don’t spend time with your lover unless you really want to, or you will grow tired of each other, turning passion into everyday squabbles.
Honor yourself by developing a fantastic sex life with yourself and possibly with other people, assuming you have established that level of trust between you and your (main) lover.
The three waves of sexual evolution
In short, there are three distinct steps to learning to make love in a ‘cosmically correct’ way, according to the list below:
Suffering because of disability to be seen, heard, and respected, especially by yourself.
Less suffering because of an increased ability to love yourself.
True happiness because of the ability to honor your needs at each moment, surrendering to the natural flow of life.
While steps one and two may appear similar, they are not.
For example, an animal has zero capacity for self-reflection and chooses its mates according to primitive instincts.
In the animal world, females prefer the strongest and most violent males, whereas males prefer the youngest and most fertile females.
Translated to a rather primitive human context, females prefer the most powerful men, which in some cultures means the strongest and in others the wealthiest, whereas most men prefer the youngest and most beautiful females.
However, as you begin to love yourself, you become much more discerning in your choice of partner, suggesting you have entered step two on the list above, which implies a gradual reduction in suffering until you have become truly God-conscious.
Lastly, once you have fully embraced yourself, meaning you have learned to see, express, and respect yourself, your need for sex to have a good life ceases, which, paradoxically, implies that you are ready for a way of living where your love life will reach unprecedented heights and bring so much joy and pleasure to your earthly experience.
3. Sacred Sexuality and Abundance
The only way to become abundant in money, love, and health is to learn to see, express, and respect yourself, which means mastering the arts of thinking, communication, and creativity, that is, mastering the first three Cosmic Commandments.
By seeing yourself, meaning having a grounded view of what you need to thrive in life, you set the right goals and make solid plans to reach a position where you can sustain yourself financially.
By expressing yourself authentically, meaning truthfully, you effectively surround yourself with those with whom you thrive, manifesting love abundance.
And, by respecting your creative process by balancing bold action and surrender, you support the flow of energy in an ideal way, which is the root cause of health
Exchanging energy with the right people
To surround yourself with the people you truly thrive with, it’s essential to be true to yourself, or you will quickly end up with people who prefer your untrue version rather than your essence.
This is so common in today’s world that people don’t even expect to share their lives with those they truly feel blissful around, reflecting another critical lesson on the path to paradise.
Making love at various degrees of intimacy
Obviously, the most effective way to exchange energy with each other is to merge physically through penetrative sex.
The second most effective way is to be emotionally close, suggesting that penetrative sex between emotionally close people represents the pinnacle of intimacy.
The third level of intimacy is represented by relationships with people you relate to but don’t feel emotionally connected to.
In fact, most people on Earth, especially in the West and the North, have superficial relationships, meaning they are based on shared interests rather than emotional openness.
As people get to know themselves better and replace outdated norms with cosmic truth, the third level of intimacy will cease to exist, and the foundation of your social life will rest on the first two levels.
Sacred sexuality and abundance
When your relationships with other people are superficial, you are not abundant in love, and when you are not abundant in love, it’s difficult to be abundant in anything else, since we need the energy of others to be whole enough to deliver our mission.
Consequently, although all processes of life begin with thinking, unless you also express yourself authentically and create in a balanced way, you won’t produce the right thoughts.
In other words, mastering the Seven Cosmic Commandments is an iterative journey of rising higher and higher through cycle after cycle.
4. Sacred Sexuality and Pleasure
From a higher perspective, pleasure is harmony, and pain is disharmony.
However, what precisely is it that is in harmony or not? It is our feelings.
Therefore, experiencing pleasure is all about cleaning up among our feelings, especially about healing so-called trauma.
The definition of trauma
If we make it very simple, trauma represents experiences you have had but not yet learned from, typically because the experiences were so intense that you couldn’t handle feeling them and instead shut down, or encapsulated a memory, not within your soul but within your body.
Because of this, trauma always refers to experiences in this life, while you can still have painful memories in your soul, though they do not affect you as strongly as trauma.
Healing trauma
Healing trauma is relatively easy if you reach a place where you can slow down and feel yourself; however, in modern life, that represents a huge challenge for people.
Consequently, most people carry trauma throughout their lives, often leading to physical illnesses as they grow older, if not already in their youth.
In essence, healing trauma means connecting with a memory temporarily stored in your physical body, awaiting transfer to the soul, and experiencing the pain it represents, often by feeling angry, disappointed, sad, scared, or confused.
There isn’t much you can do to facilitate a connection with your trauma, as your body can’t handle too much at once. However, some plants and mushrooms can speed up the process somewhat, especially for those who are disconnected from their emotions.
Sexual trauma
Even if you were not abused as a child or later, you can still experience trauma related to your sexuality, reflecting how incredibly sensitive humans are, especially young children.
Often, it’s enough to hear something negative about your body or your sexual organs for you to freeze, encapsulating a memory that will always dictate your life in certain situations until you face it, feel it, and thereby let go of it.
Especially women experience significant trauma around their sexuality, often stemming from a mismatch between their nature and the patriarchy’s view of sexuality, which can only be healed by slowing down and turning inward.
Healing trauma on a grander scale
When people realize on a grander scale how sensitive they are and how harsh life has been, even in the Western world, they will begin to slow down and honor their healing processes, which truly don’t need anything more than a fair chance to feel themselves.
Although there is a large market for healing services, nothing can really beat the simplicity of slowing down and allowing anything that is ripe to be felt and released.
Believing that you can significantly accelerate your trauma healing through various techniques is an illusion, because you can’t integrate all the insights you might gain or the emotional turbulence you might feel as a result of seemingly powerful modalities.
Trauma healing requires one thing more than anything else – patience.
5. Secrets About Masculine and Feminine Sexuality
The secret to a man’s sexuality lies in the genital area, while the secret to a woman’s sexuality lies in the throat.
So, when the divine father meets the divine mother, true magic happens.
Women and their need to be free
In a patriarchy, no one is free, especially women, who must comply with rules and norms that don’t acknowledge their feminine essence.
In such a reality, which describes the situation on planet Earth even at the beginning of the third millennium, women struggle to even come close to their sexual power, believing sex is more of a male thing.
Of course, this is a very broad generalization, but it is not without cosmic evidence supporting that communication is a core feminine quality, more important for a woman than for a man.
This isn’t different from the obvious fact that women socialize much more with other women than men do with one another.
However, for a woman, for whom expressing herself through the throat is critical, it is devastating to be close to men where she doesn’t feel safe to express her truth, leading to her closing down her authentic expression, and thus also her sexual openness.
The essence of this is that a woman cannot open one part of her body, such as the vagina, but must open herself, beginning with the throat.
Men and their need to be safe
An enlightened man feels safe because he knows who he is and that life backs him, and therefore, he has the courage to pursue his dreams, which most women love to participate in, assuming they can accept that the world doesn’t revolve around them.
In this state, he’s connected to his genital area and naturally expresses his desires, which, if he’s truly connected with himself, will miraculously make the woman feel safe enough to express herself freely.
In other words, when a man can be himself, assuming he has the capacity to connect with himself, he should automatically make a woman feel open.
Reaching higher together
Evolving as sexual beings is largely about becoming more comfortable expressing one’s authenticity, which requires a great deal of trust between the lovers.
As long as men make love disconnected from their intuition, resembling sophisticated animals rather than enlightened human beings, a woman finds it difficult to feel free and to enjoy the act as much as she could.
Therefore, feeling the pleasure of life is so much about being true to ourselves, far more than about having a certain type of body, knowing certain techniques, or being extremely aroused.
6. A Few Words for the Path Ahead
Let me share a few words about how men and women, respectively, may progress on their healing path, especially in terms of opening up to more pleasure through sexual encounters with their brothers and sisters on Earth.
A few words to women on their path
As a woman, understand that you are a queen, embodying the six archetypes of the grounded politician, the nurturing mother, the inspired artist, the sensitive healer, the planetary savior, and the profound oracle. However, you are more of one than the other five.
Depending on which archetype you most closely resemble, you must arrange your life differently and will be drawn to different men, either the visionary problem solver if you are a sensitive healer, the protective father if you are a planetary savior, the genius creator if you are a profound oracle, the cosmic scientist if you are a grounded politician, the strong leader if you are a nurturing mother, or the wise sage if you are an inspired artist.
The more you evolve, the more you begin to embody all archetypes, and the more important it will be for you to make love with more people.
A few words to men on their path
As a man, you are a king embodying the six archetypes of the visionary problem solver, the protective father, the genius creator, the cosmic scientist, the strong leader, and the wise sage. However, as with women, you are stronger in one of them.
As mentioned in the previous section, you will primarily feel drawn to the women who represent your opposite on the cosmic cross, and you will naturally feel drawn to a polyamorous life as you evolve.
However, unlike women, you connect with your sexuality through your genital area, suggesting that you must be very evolved to separate yourself from advanced animals, meaning beings who are driven by primitive instincts such as asserting power rather than by the cause of cosmic healing.
Even as you become almost God-conscious, your animalistic instinct will speak within you, and you must bring a great deal of awareness to feel what you truly want before you act, or you are likely to create more disharmony than harmony through your actions.
This isn’t to say that you shouldn’t have several lovers, but that you must be very close to yourself to manage such a life.
7. The Higher Meaning of Love
From the highest cosmic perspective, love equals pleasure, suggesting that when life isn’t pleasant, something is out of balance within the spiral.
Achieving balance in life
The number four signifies balance, explaining why a chair typically has four legs, why the heart has four chambers, and why there are four Christian Testaments necessary to explain cosmic truth.
The number four also suggests that feeling energy – God’s fourth core quality – vibrates with truth more than anything else, which is why the Fourth Commandment says: ‘Find cosmic truth by feeling yourself and others.’
Therefore, to achieve balance in life, you must live truthfully, meaning live in a way that leads to pleasure instead of pain.
Feel the love of life
If you seek love through thinking, you deceive yourself, resembling someone who looks for snow in a desert.
You can’t appreciate love mentally but only emotionally, suggesting that you can only harm life if you are disconnected from your capacity to feel.
With that in mind, do you believe people like Adolf Hitler, Benito Mussolini, and Josef Stalin were very in touch with their feelings?
And do you believe that many of today’s leaders around the globe are very attuned to their feelings, though hopefully more so than those of the past?
In fact, very few people, especially men, are strongly connected to their feelings, and especially not if you have built a successful career in the most challenging of environments, suggesting that we are ruled by people who aren’t capable of loving, meaning creating harmony through their actions.
This, in turn, suggests that our planet needs a change in the direction outlined in Gospel 5: Intuition to Create Paradise.