Gospel 7: The Path to Paradise
A new world religion suggests that people no longer place their faith in earthly scientists but in the cosmic heart – their own essence.
It also suggests that the path to an earthly paradise is wide open, assuming people can heal their wounds of rejection and abandonment, a condition that echoes how life was lived in the animal world.
Only by daring to move forward and embracing a new way of living can people become God-conscious, which essentially means being fearless and living the most amazing life a human can have.
1. The Story of Our Lives, Part 1
Early one morning, the king of the kingdom of Potential woke up, just like every morning, next to his queen, and began his duties of ruling his world.
Not long after, the queen woke up and started getting ready for her morning yoga.
At ten o’clock, she was finished and began with her duties.
However, this day was different – a new man entered the court and quickly drew the queen’s attention. ‘What a hunk,’ she mused, losing herself in her typical daydreams that always finished the same way.
The king also had secret dreams; however, they were more sex-oriented than romantic. He was a porn enthusiast, spending at least twenty minutes each day exploring new content, unless he was revisiting his carefully saved favorite episodes.
In reality, he had never experienced anything close to what he liked to watch on his phone; he didn’t even see that as a possibility. And, in fact, his sexual stamina wasn’t that good anymore. He even had trouble getting hard unless he watched his favorite porn.
The queen’s secret dreams
The queen secretly fantasized about being swept away by a charming man who could make her feel secure and comfortable enough to express herself freely.
In her dreams, opening up and feeling pleasure was so easy, but in reality, it was never like that, not even close. Was it because of her, she often wondered, or because of the king?
An unexpected realization
The next morning, during her walk, the queen accidentally bumped into Mr. Anderson, the new guy in the court administration, and couldn’t help but look into his eyes a little too long, which he, of course, noticed, since he was a bit of a ladies’ man.
The next morning, Mr. Anderson crossed her path again, and the queen couldn’t believe anything other than that he was a little charmed by her.
The same thing happened the next day, and the queen began to feel a lot of emotions bubbling up. Could Mr. Anderson be the man of her dreams? ‘He is certainly very attractive and respectful,’ she thought to herself.
She decided to approach him with a smile, ‘accidentally’ touching his elbow, and acting as if she was unaware of it.
Mr. Anderson took the hint and dared to compliment the queen, something he would never have done if he weren’t sure of her intentions.
‘Your Majesty looks amazing today,’ he said. ‘The king is a very lucky man who has the great honor of fulfilling her Majesty’s secret pleasures.’
‘Oh, Mr. Anderson, watch your mouth,’ the queen replied with a smile on her face.
Mr. Anderson realized his move was successful, excused himself, said he was late for a meeting, and ran away.
The queen stood in her rose garden, bubbling like a teenager for the first time in many years. She closed her eyes and wished that her dreams would come true.
The next day, the queen hoped to see Mr. Anderson again, but he wasn’t there. Neither the day after, and the queen began to feel that he wasn’t as interested in her as she had first thought.
However, on the third day, he was standing in the rose garden, waiting for her when she arrived.
The queen greeted him with her biggest smile, which was enough for Mr. Anderson to know that she wanted to be kissed.
A few hours later, the queen unexpectedly entered Mr. Anderson’s office and locked the door without any prior warning. She undressed in front of him and experienced the best moment of her life so far.
The king’s reaction
When the king learned about the affair, he was shocked.
However, he couldn’t help being a bit aroused as this was quite similar to one of the many videos he used to watch.
His mind started to wander. ‘Maybe we could do something the three of us, or maybe I should bring the queen to a sex party?’
A few weeks later, the king’s wishful thinking had gravitated to reality: the queen wasn’t interested in him anymore and wanted a divorce.
Although it was difficult for the king to believe all of this, as he kept creating fantasies in his head, thinking of his beloved with another man, wanting a divorce, made his heart break into infinite pieces.
He was now a broken man, even considering killing himself to end the infinite pain.
The male and female archetypes
Before we continue the story, let’s say something about what it means to be ruled more by one’s fifth body, the genital area, as a man, or the second body, the throat, as a woman.
If energy flows more easily to your genitals than to your throat, you are a man with the tendency to focus more on what you want than what is realistic.
Because of this, the king enjoyed watching porn, which was basically superficial experiences of his dreams, and he was open to co-creating something with the queen and her new lover, at least in theory.
He lacked only the crucial link between ideas and tangible output, namely communication with himself and others.
The queen, however, lacked the ability to see that the man she had just met mainly wanted to express his sexuality rather than commit to something that would make her feel safe.
What happened next?
The king’s suffering brought him closer to himself, realizing that he had been disconnected from his feelings in his relationship with the queen.
Although he had been very attached to her, he could now see that he had always pussyfooted around her, focusing more on keeping her happy than himself, with the result that he didn’t radiate the masculine energy that he needed to feel good about himself and that the queen was so desperately longing for.
With this profound realization, he changed.
Instead of chasing new women, he decided to focus on himself, only willing to create a new relationship on terms that were good for him as well.
His confidence grew, and it didn’t take long before he approached the beautiful female chef, Ms. Peterson, who showed no interest.
However, this didn’t bother the king, who was now more concerned with how he felt about himself rather than how others felt about him, so instead of trying again to persuade her, he concentrated on more important matters.
After a few days, he ran into Ms. Peterson again, which reminded him of how wonderful she is, and he almost surprised himself by spontaneously telling her this before he hurried back to his more important duties of ruling the kingdom, knowing she wasn’t particularly interested in deepening their relationship.
All of this was a bit mind-blowing for Ms. Peterson. ‘What was the king after?’ she thought for herself.
Something started to open up inside her, which she would only realize after a few more days.
A week later, the king decided to try once more with Ms. Peterson because he couldn’t get her out of his mind.
He went into the kitchen where she was working, holding a bunch of flowers and a card with an invitation for dinner and his phone number.
Ms. Peterson turned red like a tomato when the king entered the room and nearly lost consciousness when she received the flowers.
The next day, she replied to the king, accepting his invitation.
2. Healing the Fastest Way
Paradise isn’t reached by finding your soulmate or by having as much sex as you may think you would appreciate, but by healing your wounds, which explain so much of why women are like they are on the one hand and men are on the other.
In short, men are afraid of being rejected, which is linked to their difficulty in expressing themselves, using the only truly feminine body part, the throat, while women are afraid of being abandoned, reflecting their difficulty in connecting with the only masculine body part, the genitals.
To understand this, consider that not expressing your needs through your throat implies rejecting yourself, while not being connected to your genitals implies not knowing what you are truly attracted to in life, which amounts to abandoning who you are.
Why men reject themselves
In the animal world, males dominate life through their sheer masculinity, closely tied to their sexual power, while females play a subordinate role in many ways, which isn’t to say they aren’t equally essential to the species’ continuation.
As they evolve into primitive human beings, meaning beings who intend to create harmony by doing good rather than acting on their primitive instincts, men struggle to find a new way to express their superiority and importance without resorting to animal-like behavior, using violence and sheer physical power, which leads to poor self-esteem.
They don’t abandon themselves, as they still know what they want, but they reject themselves, meaning they try to play a role rather than expressing their authentic selves through the throat.
Why women abandon themselves
As a highly advanced female animal, you dip your toes into the human world by wanting to do good, and you come from a completely different place than males.
Instead of using your power to dominate others, you have used your charm to attract the right male, and you will continue on this path, using discretion and subtle signals rather than bright colors and dance-offs.
We can say that you show yourself through your throat, while men show themselves through their sexual organs, though not necessarily literally, but by signaling potency in different ways, including having money and being strong.
Because of a woman’s tendency to be subtle, her role becomes less important in the patriarchy, which naturally takes form when advanced animals become more humane. This essentially implies that she must abandon herself to fit within the emerging society.
Reaching paradise
In a patriarchy, the first form of society after the animal world, female skills are poorly understood by both women and men because everyone strives for status, which typically requires the masculine skills more than the feminine ones.
To understand this, consider that although status varies over time and across cultures, it essentially means being in a position where you can dominate others to receive certain benefits.
Consequently, paradise can only be reached when men and women have changed their preferences, which requires that they become better reflections of God’s fullness, meaning more two-polar in their sexuality.
Outgrowing the desire for sex
Beings don’t primarily have sex with each other because it feels good, but because it’s necessary to evolve.
Without the exchange of energy that comes from sexual intercourse, animals would remain animals, and paradise wouldn’t be a harmonious place without killing, but a carnivorous all-you-can-eat jungle party.
Similarly, humans wouldn’t gradually become more harmonious but would remain fighting for status, using all the strategies for gaining advantages in life, including manipulation, suppression, and bribery.
So, the role of sex, as exemplified in the story about the kingdom of Potential, is to inspire men to become more feminine and women to become more masculine.
This happened when the queen couldn’t resist her attraction to Mr. Anderson and approached him in a rather masculine way, and when the king was forced to embrace his vulnerability and heal from within, rather than relying on the status granted by the crown on his head.
In short, the pull from the other pole forces us to change, which is the whole point of evolution, and suggests that life is a dance between the two sides of God – masculinity and femininity.
Because of this, a feminine being will gradually become more masculine, to the point where we can no longer talk about a ‘she’ but instead a perfectly two-polar being, who will progress further by becoming a ‘he,’ before reaching another turning point eons later.
We can say that God evolves by alternating between experiencing life from masculine/inward and feminine/outward perspectives.
3. The Story of Our Lives, Part 2
The king and Ms. Peterson embarked on a marvelous journey together, during which everything was so much easier for the king than in his past relationships, primarily thanks to the profound healing he had undergone, triggered by his ex-wife's rejection.
As already mentioned, he was now less concerned with what others thought of him and more focused on how he felt about himself, so he didn’t mind Ms. Peterson’s initial rejection so much, which ultimately led to their deeper connection.
We can say that Ms. Peterson became more interested in the king when she realized he wasn’t trying to harass her or to convince her of something she didn’t want, but was focused on himself – the very energy that women seek in men.
However, before their first romantic encounter, Ms. Peterson needed to share something with the king that changed everything: She already had a lover and was only willing to make love with the king if he could accept it.
Becoming polyamorous
In many cultures around the world, being polyamorous is viewed as a sin, and even having a second partner after the death of your first is considered morally wrong, reflecting outdated notions of love and relationships.
However, in some of these cultures, it’s acceptable for men to have multiple wives, while women are victims of genital mutilation and are veiled to avoid arousing foreign men.
We can say that men appear to have certain benefits, supposedly sanctioned by ‘God,’ that women lack, reflecting the most primitive stages of patriarchy.
In these cultures, where women are heavily suppressed and dominated by men, the idea of a woman having sex with men other than her husband is far outside the mental box, to put it mildly. However, for some reason, it isn’t as weird if men have sex with other women, even if they are married.
Why is this?
The answer is that these cultures are dominated by men who are almost animal-like, but with the intention to do good, suggesting they are religious rather than interested in science, and definitely not in cosmic science.
We have all been at this evolutionary level, and we will all outgrow science just as we outgrew dogmatic religions, and we will all become polyamorous in the true sense of the word, which is so far from what some cultures practice in today’s world.
But it will happen in divine timing, when people have become sufficiently balanced in their masculine and feminine capacities, reflecting the truth of God.
The adventures of the king and Ms. Peterson
The king was unaware that one reason Ms. Peterson had been a bit skeptical of him was that she already had a lover, Mr. Garcia.
When the king heard it for the first time, he was a bit surprised, but since he wasn’t as attached to Ms. Peterson as he had been to the queen, it wasn’t a big deal. He was merely curious to hear what she had in mind for their affair.
One day he even met Mr. Garcia, an encounter that sent a chill down the king’s spine. What a man he was. Tall, handsome, at least ten years younger than the king, with a broad, masculine cheek.
Instantly, the king began to feel the way he hadn’t since the queen left him for another man.
However, this time was slightly different because, for some reason, Ms. Peterson still wanted to be with him despite having this ‘piece of masculine art’ beside her.
The king’s head ached from intense thinking. What was happening here? Was he about to lose himself once more, becoming a pleaser of someone else rather than himself?
A journey of healing trauma
When you can see your lover with another partner, you are no longer like the primitive men in cultures that still suppress women in the name of God. You no longer fear rejection and abandonment, even if your partner makes you feel like you are no longer the one and only.
In fact, believing that you are the one and only is a lie many people keep telling themselves to avoid facing the pain of rejection and abandonment, suggesting that they build a fortress of attachment that can only lead to negative outcomes, including suppressed feelings toward others, dirty affairs covered up by lies, and reduced attraction over time between you and your partner.
And perhaps most dramatically, it results in a brutal fall once the lie can no longer be sustained, which will happen sooner or later, though not necessarily in this particular incarnation.
The king’s confession
The king felt an urge to put Ms. Peterson against the wall and ask her a few questions.
‘Why do you want both Mr. Garcia and me in your life?’ he began. ‘Are you hedging your bets in case one of us pulls out?’
‘No, of course not,’ Ms. Peterson replied. ‘I just don’t understand why I must be with only one of you when I get so much from making love with both of you, but in different ways. Can you please explain that to me?’
‘Well, it’s not normal to have several sexual partners, my dear,’ the king continued.
‘’I’m aware of that, but what is your problem with it? Please tell me because I care so much about you.’
‘Well,’ the king muttered, ‘I don’t know exactly what the problem is, but I’m not sure I want to be involved in this.’
‘You don’t have to, my love. But if you change your mind, you know that I truly like you.’
For whom is polyamory?
Polyamory isn’t for people who dream of having multiple lovers but wouldn’t feel comfortable seeing their partner with someone else, though they don’t need to be as extreme as some religious fundamentalists.
Rather, it is for people who understand that we are one being and that it is the most natural thing in the world to allow energy to flow as freely as possible, meaning exchanging skills with those we feel strongly attracted to.
4. The Pecking Order of Healing
If we are primitive male lions, we don’t heal by sensing how we feel within ourselves, or by carefully choosing a female who balances our tendency to act a little too fast under stress. We simply follow our instincts and take those females where we believe we have a good chance of beating the competition.
For example, if it’s abundantly clear that her current lover is stronger than we are, we don’t take that fight but wait for a better moment.
Consequently, step one in becoming more two-polar, meaning better reflections of God’s essence, is to take whatever opportunities we have to merge with the opposite gender.
At this point in our evolution, the drive to heal is so strong, reflecting a profound need for it, that we risk our lives to mate.
Healing for more sophisticated beings than the most one-polar ones
Humans’ healing journey is very different from that of animals, but shares the same principles: We are attracted to the energies we need to become more like God.
So, most of the time, a man is attracted to a woman and vice versa, but since we are so much more connected to our supporting principle than animals are, we sometimes also crave an energy that only someone of the same gender can provide, which we refer to as homosexuality.
Sometimes we can pass through a phase in which we are primarily drawn to people of the same gender for several lives, something that could never happen to more primitive beings than relatively advanced Christ beings.
And for God-conscious humans, homosexuality is even more common, though less important than heterosexual encounters.
The pecking order of healing for a God-conscious human
To understand your healing journey, it is helpful to identify which archetypes you resonate with most among those presented in Gospel 1.
For example, if you most strongly identify as a ‘visionary problem solver,’ which vibrates with the first of the twelve frequency bands, called masculine thinking, you are probably most drawn to what we call ‘the sensitive healer,’ who vibrates with the eighth frequency band, feminine feeling.
In other words, you are attracted to the being opposite you on the cosmic cross.
The rationale behind this is that thinking and feeling go well together, just as communication and intuition do, and creativity and memory do.
We can say that the head is particularly well connected to the organs, the throat to the genitals, and the muscles to the skeleton, although all body parts exchange energy with one another in various ways.
So, your main path to healing is to exchange energy, meaning making love, with a person who has what you lack the most, followed by making love with someone who has what you lack the second most.
Since we cannot integrate and transform too quickly, there is no point in making love with everyone you feel attracted to, which could be everyone in the cosmos, at least a tiny bit, but with those few you feel the strongest attraction to.
5. Listening More to Your Intuition
Experiencing life as a created aspect of God involves joyfully evolving through an infinite spiral of new experiences, continually nearing a perfection that remains forever out of reach.
On this path, there is one thing that guides you on how to progress: your intuition.
Listening more to yourself
Everyone is unique and has a unique healing path, meaning they are attracted to different energies and people.
Of course, everyone wants a healthy person, which explains why we tend to be attracted to people with a beautiful exterior, hoping it is just as good on the inside.
In fact, people’s appearance tells a lot about who they are, but not everything, making it a rather poor criterion for choosing your lover.
If people could date with their eyes closed, they would find a better partner, but since this is unlikely to happen, the second-best option is to be very mindful about who you are attracted to, in contrast to who you believe you want to make love with.
When people can truly feel who they are attracted to, the dating process is very simple.
How fast can you heal?
Can you heal significantly during a one-night stand with someone you are strongly attracted to?
The answer is yes, although it may take years to fully integrate the energies of the person you made love with.
In fact, you don’t need much new energy to heal significantly, but you do need it to consistently live at a higher vibration.
In other words, there are two effects to be aware of: First, you heal long-term by receiving new energies, and second, you temporarily live as if you were healed as long as you constantly refill yourself with the other person’s energy.
So, to heal, you don’t need to have a lot of sex in your life, but to live a balanced life and thrive as much as possible, you do.
A healthy approach to healing and lovemaking
As you likely understand, healing and lovemaking are powerful and essential parts of your life, and they should be approached maturely.
Just as you can’t rush your trauma healing, you can’t rush your overall healing toward becoming a more two-polar aspect of God, so you should surrender to what life brings your way rather than seeking partners on dating apps.
You might be able to find a lot of people you are attracted to on these apps, but you might not be ready to receive them, or they may even disrupt your own processes, things that are almost impossible for you to be aware of but that life knows.
Therefore, put a lot of faith in life and trust that you will become abundant in love when such a reality leads to more rather than less harmony in your life.
6. Healing the Soul
As you heal your seven-dimensional cosmic body and become more God-like by better radiating all of God’s six core qualities – thinking, communication, creativity, feeling, intuition, and memory – you simultaneously move closer to outgrowing your desire for penetrative lovemaking.
So, paradoxically, humans are in the process of loosening their appetite for making love by going through a temporary phase of making more love, which happens to coincide with experiencing an earthly human paradise.
The essence of paradise
It isn’t without reason that an earthly paradise is sometimes portrayed as a lustful Garden of Eden, since this is the reality that is predestined to occur on Earth in the not-too-distant future.
However, before we get there, a lot of trauma healing must take place, including connecting with the wounds of rejection and abandonment and beginning to think in a more open-minded way.
From a higher perspective, paradise isn’t about an abundance of penetrative sex, but an abundance of harmony, suggesting that humans will only do what they need to thrive most, which happens to be establishing societies that are very open to romance.
Only with this approach can life in a physical reality become as vibrant as possible before its inhabitants ascend to an entirely non-physical life experience by merging with the compassionate being that currently constitutes their Higher Self, something that will be discussed more later.
Seeing the light at the end of the tunnel
After 2,000 years of sexual suppression in the name of God, we can now see the light at the end of the tunnel, but we must be careful not to try to run before we can walk.
Begin to view every small step toward greater emotional intimacy with friends and lovers as a step in the right direction, and remember that Rome wasn’t built in one day.
On the soul level, we are about to break new ground, suggesting that we must find our visions for the future through trial and error and by connecting with more evolved beings, rather than in our collective past lives, which usually serve as the main inspiration for our thinking.
We are all one
From a higher perspective, polyamory isn’t a big deal because we are all one being.
What’s big is rather the potential that comes from allowing energy to flow freely, which resembles a paradise where you can always be in balance with life, radiating your most life-enhancing frequencies for your own and everyone’s benefit.
In fact, at some point, resisting polyamory will resemble an old person with a rigid mind in today’s world who believes that vegetables and fruit are for those who cannot afford meat.
7. Learning to Love
The more people embrace the idea that love-making is the most effective way to heal, the more they distance themselves from the indoctrination that it is a sin or merely a means to have children.
From a higher perspective, making love is about making love, literally speaking, and the amount of love you have created can be measured by the level of pleasure you have felt.
Learning to make love
Making love is the highest form of human art and must be regarded as such, or you will enter it with the wrong intentions.
Yes, lovemaking is also about physical pleasure, but even more, it’s about spiritual beauty, meaning expressing yourself as the aspect of God you are.
In fact, making love is about channeling God, meaning expressing the aspect of you that is truly enlightened and connected to angels.
The more you allow God’s intuition, or absolute knowing, to flow through you, the faster you evolve and the more you thrive where you are.
Becoming a Casanova
Whether you are a man or a woman, the future invites you to become more open to expressing your sexuality, though the path will be rocky at first as people heal from trauma related to rejection and abandonment.
On this path, remember the following three pieces of advice:
Learn to walk before you attempt to run, meaning heal your trauma at your own pace before you attempt to live polyamorously.
If you are a man, be very mindful of your primitive instinct to desire many lovers, and don’t fool yourself into believing this is about being ready for a truly polyamorous life, as it is probably closer to patriarchal norms still practiced in some Muslim cultures, among others.
If you are a woman, be very mindful of your tendency to close down sexually when you feel unsafe, and don’t assume the problem is your male lover. Of course, respect your boundaries and progress at your own pace, but don’t close down to the idea of viewing love differently than in the past.