Gospel 7: Creating Love in an Enlightened Way
Love can only be created as an increase in harmony, meaning pleasure, or it isn’t love.
However, you can never judge an act of love based solely on a short-term period, since speaking your truth usually leads to a higher level of harmony after a period of unavoidable disharmony.
For example, the role of The Fourth Testament isn’t to create immediate harmony but to reveal people’s need for healing, contributing to the deluge of transformation, so they can reach paradise as quickly as possible.
1. Introduction to Sacred Sexuality
As has been emphasized multiple times in The Fourth Testament, sacred sexuality involves the exchange of energy among all children of God, something that occurs constantly, whether we acknowledge it or not.
However, to be truly sacred, it requires that we are aware of it, which depends on us being sufficiently connected to God’s ability to feel, which, in turn, requires us to be at least somewhat evolved human beings.
When sexuality begins to be sacred
When a man genuinely connects with his ability to feel energy, he starts to understand the woman's power, realizing that his mental beliefs have been illusions.
Similarly, when a woman recognizes that her feelings are her most valuable guiding light, far more significant than what scientists, mostly men, have told her, her self-esteem starts to increase.
And when a man humbles himself and understands that his true strength lies in transforming feminine wisdom into visions, plans, and results rather than merely being wise, and when a woman recognizes that her real strength is to feel rather than think life, a new way of living begins.
At this point, making love turns into a sacred act of supporting each other, with pure physical pleasure as the cherry on top.
2. The Three Waves of Sexual Evolution
The first step in someone’s sexual evolution is learning to create harmony within themselves, meaning learning to express God’s masculine and feminine qualities reasonably well.
In this process, men shouldn’t aim for perfection in the feminine arts of communication, feeling, and devotion, just like women shouldn’t aim for perfection in the masculine arts of thinking, creativity, and knowing, but for a supporting principle that is good enough.
So, what is good enough in this context?
For a man, it’s enough to be able to feel himself and those around him so he can connect with healthy desires, and for a woman, it's to be strong enough to pursue her own visions rather than those of men.
Until you achieve a satisfactory balance between the masculine and feminine aspects of life, you cannot create harmony within yourself, making it impossible to find harmony with others.
In short, you are not yet prepared for sacred sexuality and will express your sexual desires in a more primal and less satisfying manner.
The timing of things
Reaching step one in a human’s sexual evolution, which means being able to create harmony within yourself between God’s masculine and feminine sides, is a journey that spans millions of years from animal to human.
However, once you get there, it’s easy to reach step two, which is to create harmony with another person, and step three, which is to create harmony with several other people simultaneously.
The only reason we discuss three separate steps, even though they are ultimately one step represented by healing yourself, is that this makes sense practically. Let me explain.
In reality, no one waits until they are fully healed before they create intimacy with other people, and they shouldn’t, explaining why friction is unavoidable on this path.
So, the reason why polyamory is a separate step, following monogamy, is that it’s much easier to keep healing yourself while sharing life with just one person. Why? – Because connecting with your deepest sexual desires requires a lot of trust in the people you make love with, which is very hard, if not impossible, to achieve in open relationships.
Consequently, reaching your full potential as a sexual human being is a path, like so many, that requires patience.
A few words for men on their path toward sexual freedom.
As a man, it is important to remember that your animalistic instinct is to desire multiple women and to boost your self-esteem by ‘conquering’ young, fertile, and physically attractive individuals, which are tendencies you will outgrow as you evolve.
You cannot do much about this, because we all are who we are, and it’s impossible to jump forward in evolution without gaining the relevant experiences that bring you forward.
That said, when you're close to enlightenment, meaning understanding who you are and connecting with your capacity to feel – your feminine side – you can be mindful of where you come from and make well-informed decisions, including:
Be very cautious before deciding to give up what you have to pursue a new desire. Ask yourself whether this is the right path or if your desire might change as you heal a little more. In other words, consider what is fueling your desires, and steer clear of actions that could bring less rather than more harmony into your life.
Make sure you can't express your desires with your current partner before seeking a new one. Allow her plenty of time to understand who you are and to feel her own feelings deeply. If there's a mismatch, parting ways might be necessary, but often you can grow together.
Avoid the tendency to fulfill your desires through watching porn instead of working toward reality. Why? – Because watching porn effectively disconnects you from the step-by-step process needed to reach your innermost desires by viewing them superficially upfront. This keeps you trapped in an old version of yourself that will never evolve into a man who can truly express himself the way he secretly dreams, often living vicariously through browsing porn channels.
A few words for women on their path toward sexual freedom.
As a woman, it is important to understand your animalistic instincts, which drive you to find the most suitable husband – someone who is healthy, wealthy, strong, good-looking, a great father, and more – so you can have children together and live happily ever after.
In short, you tend to look for the dream prince rather than for temporary joy and a healthy exchange of energy, turning lovemaking into something rather serious.
We can say that for women, lovemaking has a tendency to be everything or nothing, although everything is often just centered around a few days every month when they’re fertile.
So, making love isn’t necessarily very important to a woman until she feels more connected to her masculine side.
The recommendations for women include:
Avoid the tendency to shut down your interest in lovemaking by nurturing the love life you have with yourself, meaning learning to masturbate in ways that bring you a lot of pleasure and boost your self-esteem. In fact, developing a healthy sex life with yourself is an excellent starting point for most women, but it doesn’t always come as naturally as it does for men.
Although your goal is to become more masculine in how you relate to sex, just like a man’s goal is to become more feminine, meeting somewhere in the middle, you must honor yourself in this process – meaning not trying to rush before you're ready. This is also important for men, but if you fail, you might shut down and take two steps back, whereas a man might just keep moving forward as if nothing happened. In short, your sexuality is deeper and more fragile, and it must be respected.
Avoid the mistake of using sex as a way to release stress, and don’t create any illusions that making love is so special because of you. A healthy man loves all healthy women, as he is open to exchanging energy with those he feels drawn to. This is the cosmic reality, and the same principle applies to you, although you are likely more in tune with your feelings than your intellect, which means it may take longer for you to realize this. In short, see lovemaking for what it is: a way to heal, and understand why it shouldn’t be used to suppress your healing needs by masking an unhealthy lifestyle by reducing stress, or cling to the Hollywood idea that it’s all about romance.
3. Sacred Sexuality and Abundance
As humans explore the field of sacred sexuality, there are a few important points to consider, in addition to the specific advice given to men and women, respectively, in the previous chapter.
In short, three things support sacred sexuality: 1) financial abundance, 2) health abundance, and 3) love abundance, while poverty, illness, and woundedness are harmful.
Let me now share a few words about each of these three aspects.
1. Financial abundance
Before I say something about sacred sexuality and financial abundance, let’s remind ourselves that true financial abundance is achieved through inner transformation, meaning gradually connecting with who we are and with our true cosmic mission as we grow older, and then learn to master it well enough to generate sufficient streams of income to be able to do everything we dream of and that aligns with what is highest for all children of God.
Unless you fundamentally understand the true path to abundance, you won't be ready to embrace sacred sexuality at a higher level. Why? – Because if you believe money and sex are linked, you won’t attract the right people, especially if you're a woman. Let me clarify.
For thousands of years, women have been ruled by men, either directly through force or financial dependence, or indirectly by having to deal with unbalanced patriarchal norms.
Because of this, many women today prioritize financial independence above anything else.
However, although this is a healthy and understandable ambition given our past, it remains problematic as long as we live in a patriarchy, which forces women to become financially independent by sacrificing their feminine essence and embracing something they are not. Otherwise, they may be less independent or even controlled by men.
We can say that women are stuck between a rock and a hard place: either they work like men or they are ruled by men.
Needless to say, both options make it difficult to embrace sacred sexuality, which requires two independent beings of opposite genders to merge.
The good news is that everything will be okay in a few hundred years, but the bad news is that the journey to get there involves many challenges.
For example, the current financial system must die, and a new one must be born that transfers money to those who create love rather than to those who create harm, thereby improving the chances for women to thrive in life.
In the meantime, women should focus on their most essential needs rather than material possessions like designer clothes, expensive hair treatments, and so on, which could help them become financially independent without sacrificing too much or relying heavily on men.
Am I saying that women should revert to poverty? – No, I’m saying that everyone, but especially women, since the patriarchal system is more harmful to them than to men, should prioritize financial independence, which may entail reducing one’s costs before increasing one’s income.
2. Health abundance
As a man, you typically face more health struggles than women, reflecting that feeling is an archetypal feminine trait, which helps women live slightly longer and, most importantly, in a much healthier and happier state, despite the widespread suppression of their true nature by the patriarchy.
Can you imagine how healthy women could be if it weren’t for the burden of violent men, traumatized children, and unjust financial systems?
And can you imagine how healthy men would be if they connected more with their feminine side, slowing down and feeling inward instead of constantly pushing forward until they have to rely on pharmaceuticals to survive, which is very harmful to their health?
In fact, by making love with women on women’s terms – meaning deeply connected with yourself and your lover – everything changes for the better for both parties. Why? – Because when a woman is truly open to making love, she hardly has any boundaries for a man’s adventurous side. This means a man will fulfill his needs for feeling strong and important not by pushing himself to work harder, look better, or be stronger, but by expressing his authentic self to a woman who cherishes him as a god.
Likewise, this experience isn’t just the most healing for a man, but also for a woman, transforming the harmful masculine force we all recognize from the patriarchy into a genuine source of pleasure and healing.
3. Love abundance
Love abundance, meaning the possibility to make love as often as you want and need, with the particular energies that are the most helpful for you, gradually becomes a reality after securing abundance for you and your lover in terms of finances and health.
Going forward, we will refer to love abundance as polyamory, and it will be discussed in more depth in Chapter 7.
4. The Path Forward
As has already been mentioned, evolving sexually is a gradual process that starts with learning to create harmony or love within yourself, meaning between your own masculine and feminine sides.
Essentially, this means being able to live in accordance with the Seven Cosmic Commandments, revealed in Gospel 3.
In this process, women will naturally struggle relatively more to fulfill Commandments 1, 3, and 5, while men will struggle relatively more to connect with Commandments 2, 4, and 6.
Similarly, women will struggle relatively more to connect with the inward, masculine aspect of all Commandments, while it will be relatively more challenging for men to connect with the outward, feminine aspects.
In other words, men will find it more difficult to align with life, while women will struggle more to follow their own desires and ways of doing things.
This suggests that evolution is an ongoing process where you strengthen your masculine side first, then develop your feminine side, and then reinforce your masculinity again, continuing this cycle indefinitely.
Different people will bring you different gifts
Once you engage in sacred relationships with others, you start to mirror the other person, making their best qualities your own.
This begins slowly as you open your hearts to each other, then accelerates rapidly before gradually slowing down again.
Because of this, there’s a natural rhythm in the attraction between people: it starts strong, then becomes very strong, and later reverts to strong again – assuming you manage to grow together, which isn’t always easy depending on how much trauma you still carry inside.
Strengthening your masculinity
For both men and women, the path to developing your masculine side entails becoming strong in yourself, which necessitates three things, according to the list below, which starts with the most essential aspect:
Living from the inside out, meaning spending time in isolation, at least a little every day and sometimes longer, to connect with your truth.
Learn to express this truth without feeling guilty if it triggers others. Of course, there's no point in provoking others, but even more important is to prevent everyone’s freedom from being restricted by wounded individuals who feel triggered by anything outside their limited view of what is healthy.
Be proud of yourself, which requires that you do something good, which essentially means that you align with your cosmic mission rather than wasting your time because of 1) greed, 2) pride, 3) sloth, 4) wrath, 5) envy, 6) gluttony, 7) lust, that is, the seven ‘deadly sins’ that reflect the detrimental forces to 1) healthy visions, 2) healthy dialogue, 3) healthy creativity, 4) healthy feeling, 5) healthy wisdom, 6) healthy letting go, and 7) healthy sexuality.
Strengthening your femininity
For both men and women, the path forward to strengthening your connection with God’s feminine side entails:
Slow down, because it’s impossible to truly feel life if you're constantly caught up in creating visions, making plans, and carrying them out. Once you've slowed down significantly, you can slow down even more, and you might get close to the cosmic heartbeat if you're an average person living in the Western world.
Honor your desire to stay connected with the Earth, including touching the land through gardening; swimming in lakes, streams, and oceans; and walking in forests and fields.
Realize that you are a very simple yet magical child of God, who merely needs to eat, pray, and love to thrive in life, meaning enjoy earthly pleasures, have a meaningful relationship with the spiritual realms, and express your sexuality.
5. Secrets About Masculine and Feminine Sexuality
Life on Earth is a dance between God’s masculine and feminine forces, balancing the alkaline, almost sweet masculinity and healthy acidity of femininity.
By navigating life through satisfying our cravings for new experiences by switching between inner and outer impressions, we become more God-like or more enlightened.
On this journey, there are many phases, of which the human one is marked by creativity more than anything else, meaning executing our plans to become more connected with our feelings.
If we fail to transition between masculine and feminine states, we become a force that disrupts the overall rhythm of life, making the experience of creation worse for everyone, especially for ourselves.
If we push this path too far, we become ill, with the most dangerous illness called cancer, which forcefully demands our attention to change.
Cancer can come for many reasons, but the most common ones relate to failing to connect with our masculine or feminine essence, explaining why prostate cancer is so widespread among men and breast cancer is so widespread among women.
In short, the root cause of prostate cancer is suppressed masculinity, while the root cause of breast cancer is suppressed femininity.
Please understand that this doesn’t mean you’ve been less masculine or less feminine than others, but that you have suppressed your true self too much.
Prostate cancer
If a man allows himself to be a man, the prostate becomes much healthier than if the opposite goes. Why? – Because the prostate belongs to the Sacral chakra, which deals with the virgin birth of knowing energy.
If a man doesn’t know who he is – a situation becoming more common as people navigate the confusing shift from being more animalistic to more compassionate – he tends to suppress his needs for strength, adventure, and speaking his truth, which blocks the energy of knowing from manifesting healthy prostates.
Breast cancer
Similar to men’s situation, women who suppress their femininity – which is almost more common than not in the Western world today, though that doesn’t mean it was better in the past, since evolution moves us forward – struggle to manifest healthy breasts.
Strictly anatomically, it was easier for women to fulfill the outdated and suppressed feminine roles of caring for the home and children than to act like men in the masculine world of business within a patriarchy.
So, when a woman abandons her femininity, she closes her heart to life, becoming stressed and dry rather than relaxed and radiant, which often leads to breast cancer.
Conclusions
By recognizing the two most common cancer types for men and women respectively, we can learn something about our sexuality, specifically that the prostate is extremely important for men and the heart is extremely important for women, strictly in terms of sexual expression.
Therefore, in addition to embracing their masculinity, men can benefit from receiving love and affection for their prostates, located in the most shameful of areas, the anus, by opening up to penetration and experiencing, for them, the highest physical pleasure.
Likewise, women can understand that their sexuality is closely connected to their heart health, meaning for them, sex isn’t mainly about the genitals but an integrated part of living.
6. The Truth of Homosexuality
Homosexuality, in its current form, as a sexual relationship between those who aren’t attracted to people of the opposite gender but only to their own sex, will gradually cease to exist on Earth. Why? – Because it is related to one or more of the following three things that disappear with healing:
Wounds inflicted by the other gender in this or, more commonly, past lives, which have made a person close down a part of themselves and opened up for expressing their sexuality in a completely different way.
Disconnection from one’s essence as a man or woman because of an aggressive father or mother, or any other role model in this or past lives.
The belief that sex is a waste of time and that friendships are more valuable, even if they are platonic.
That said, moving forward, once people have healed more, homosexuality will reemerge as a form of free creative expression, considering how much pleasure it gives a man to be penetrated in a healed Sacral chakra and how much satisfaction it brings a woman when touched with the sensitivity that only another woman can provide.
However, we could rather refer to this as polysexuality than homosexuality.
The cosmic benefits of homosexuality
Once you have healed and connected with your essence as either a man or a woman, yet with a relatively strong supporting pole, you sometimes crave an energy that you can’t find in the opposite gender.
This isn’t any more unusual than the fact that you sometimes like to rest in the middle of your most productive period, or that you sometimes crave a food that you most of the time don’t crave.
Embracing these cravings, if so only by acknowledging them within yourself, expands your mentality, making you a more complete human being.
And if you have the courage to fulfill them, you will heal even more, bringing you to a new level of fearlessness.
To people who see themselves as homosexual
Claiming that homosexuality is transient from an evolutionary perspective can, of course, be provocative to many who experience sexual attraction solely toward members of the same gender, raising the question of whether The Fourth Testament suggests that homosexuality is less evolved or inferior to heterosexuality.
Therefore, we want to specifically address gays and lesbians, or any other minority groups who don’t fit these labels, to say that, generally speaking, homosexual individuals are more evolved than heterosexual ones, more open to living a polyamorous life, and freer to express themselves.
Although The Fourth Testament deliberately avoids labeling people and traditions as more or less God-like, being homosexual is more aligned with the divine than being homophobic, and, as a general guideline, homosexual people tend to be closer to enlightenment than those who are disgusted by the idea of loving someone of the same sex.
This information is shared to prevent any misunderstanding that homosexual people are being singled out as wrong.
7. Polyamory
As a spiritual being, you sense the energy of everyone you focus on, unlike how life on Earth is experienced, where you must actively open your heart and physically connect to truly feel each other.
For this reason, states beyond becoming a God-conscious physical human being are already naturally polyamorous, as anything else is entirely impossible.
So, why are humans so far behind in this way of living?
The answer is, of course, because they have been in a process of evolving from an animalistic way of expressing their sexuality, involving primitive instincts, to a human way, involving carefully discerning the difference between right and wrong, and choosing the better option.
The way we have approached sexuality only reflects how we have embraced all aspects of life, as exemplified by the seven sacraments.
People have simply done the best they could with their level of understanding, and as this understanding evolves, their way of living changes.
The three unexpected realizations for people who embrace polyamory in the true sense of the word
You accelerate your healing beyond what you thought was possible.
The relationship with your ‘main lover’ or partner will improve beyond what you thought was possible as you not only benefit from your own exchanges of energy with others, but indirectly also from their exchanges with others.
Your main challenges in life are no longer related to money, health, and love, but to staying grounded in a life that’s becoming increasingly adventurous and exciting.
The art of ejaculating
As a human being, you sometimes create vehicles for other souls to continue their evolution by fertilizing eggs in women's wombs. This process involves using the intelligence of our reproductive organs to connect with the wisdom held in the Earth, which represents unique souls, and must be guided by truly enlightened beings such as angels.
The more sexuality becomes a means for you to heal, the more important it becomes to understand what an ejaculation really is: a way to give your energy to a new cosmic vehicle for another soul.
Consequently, unless your intention is to create such a vehicle or embryo of a human child, it doesn't make sense to ejaculate, at least not unless it gives you deep pleasure or helps you get rid of a rather uncomfortable feeling of being too full of something.
To understand this, remember that a man’s highest sexual pleasure doesn’t come from the orgasm but from expressing himself freely. Also, there is only a need to ejaculate to release pressure as long as energy doesn't move effectively within yourself.
Consequently, we can say that the desire to ejaculate naturally diminishes on your path toward experiencing an earthly paradise. When you no longer desire it, you not only have the capacity to make love much more than before, but you also accelerate the healing of your physical organism, thanks to the energy that remains within to support the recreation of your own vehicle rather than that of another soul.
Free love communities
In the next few hundred years, more and more people will start living by cosmic laws instead of earthly ones, meaning by truth rather than outdated Christian beliefs supplemented with 20th-century scientific theories, which will lead to our societies becoming more diverse.
Ultimately, people will form small societies or communities where they can be free, regardless of less developed people’s ideas about how they should educate their children, handle their physical pain, source their energy, or express their sexuality.
These communities will emerge around the world, especially where the land's energy fosters freedom, often historically shown as regional struggles for independence from oppressive authorities.
Examples of such lands include Northern Spain, Central Europe, the USA, and Eastern Europe.
This isn’t to say that these lands represent the ultimate energy to create a paradisial way of living, but that they are inhabited by sufficiently evolved people to accept new thinking.
An earthly paradise will mainly grow from the Old World, just as the new way of thinking about people’s equal worth first emerged in the land that vibrates with the energy of knowing more than anything else.
Free love
Free love and controlled love are like night and day.
Who came up with the idea that you should control another person’s life force by not allowing them to make love to those they feel drawn to?
Is it an animalistic instinct? – No, it’s primarily a product of religious norms, originating from a time when societies on Earth were very primitive and needed better organization to manage childbirth and childcare, as explained in Gospel 5.
For this reason, sex needed to be controlled.
However, what happens if we keep controlling love although it isn’t necessary to be controlled anymore? – We create disharmony instead of harmony.
In other words, the concept of monogamy has shifted from a healthy to an unhealthy ideal, which humanity must recognize and change accordingly.
The only reason the transition is taking so long is that people are deeply traumatized, holding on to everything they have because they fear ending up with nothing.
In short, free love means the ability to live life to one’s fullest potential and is the biggest game changer in creating a truly human paradise.